Ceremony Rituals and Symbolism

There are many creative and memorable ways to bring ritual and symbolic actions into your ceremony.  Ritual can also be a meaningful way to bring together members of families connected to the bride and groom, to incorporate the involvement of children in the couples’ lives, or to recognise the importance of community to the couple.  Here are just a few suggestions I’ve pulled together for my couples, but the opportunities are many:

Sand Unity Ceremony


The sand unity ceremony, involves the wedding couple,  and/or close family or children, adding different coloured sands to a central glass container. Each person is given a specific colour/type, taking it in turns to add the sand to the container, or pouring together.
The layers of sand in the container can represent the many people contributing to the life of the couple so far and the support going into the future. It can also represent the ongoing unity of the family, as the grains of sand are forever entwined.
This is a lovely way to incorporate children into the ceremony, if the couple already have children, or are forming a blended family.  It is also a lovely symbolism for the couple alone.  The main vessel becomes a keepsake for the home. Read about a beautiful example of a family sand ceremony here.

Wishing Stoneswishing stones pic
As people arrive at the ceremony they are given a wishing stone. At an allocated time in the ceremony the guests are invited to bring their stone to the front and place it into a large bowl or vessel and make a wish or say a prayer for the bride and groom.
This is a nice way of symbolising the importance of community for the couple into the future.

IMG_4948Tree Planting

This can be done in either a pot, or if the wedding is at the couple’s home it can be planted in the garden. The plant represents the new life together, the nurturing required, and the growth that the couple will have in the future years. Read about a tree planting ceremony here.

Candle Lighting Ceremony
Also known as a Unity Candle Ceremony, the candle ceremony is symbolic of the two merging families and their unity on this day. Traditionally there are three candles. Allocated family members from the bride and groom can light a candle each, then pass it on to the bride and groom who then together light the centre candle. Children can also be included in this ritual, using more candles, or passing a candle between family members before lighting the centre candle.

Candle lighting can also be done at the beginning of the ceremony as a way of honouring or remembering loved ones who were unable to be at the ceremony.

Stone Ceremony
This Australian wedding tradition came about when the early settlers could not afford wedding rings. The bride and groom would each cast a stone into the river, which would represent them staying together forever as life ebbed and flowed around them.
Suited to an outdoor ceremony, in a natural setting.

three-color-butterflies-29177596Butterfly Release
Butterflies are symbols of the spirit of freedom and happiness and provide a romantic visual moment during a wedding ceremony.
After the wedding couple have spoken their vows, the butterflies are released.  Monarch butterflies are generally used as they are native to all part of Australia.  For more information about butterfly releases you can have a look at Blissful Butterflies – www.blissfulbutterflies.com.au

Whatever you decide to do I will do my best to ensure it is woven into your ceremony to suit your day.

Wendy Grace Hendry xx

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